This may seem like an odd topic for a blog with a name like "The Provident Homemaker". However, part of the meaning of 'provident' is 'preparing'; and we have some serious mental and spiritual preparing to do. So what is this about?
There are a number of words that are no longer understood to mean what they used to; words that have been intentionally corrupted. I've been watching for them; they include emotional trigger words like
", and "discriminate
". After reading this article about a possible ban in Cincinnati on reparative therapy
, I got wondering about the word choice in the phrase 'sexual orientation': (Turns out, this law proposal was sparked as a revolt against parental rights, not only retaliation against God's word. Read the article.)
Turns out that I now have another word to add to my "words co-opted" list:
"the act or process of orienting" or " the state of being oriented".
, "orient" includes this: 1 a :to cause to face or point toward the east specifically :to build (a church or temple) with the longitudinal axis pointing eastward and the chief altar at the eastern end
c :to ascertain the bearings of
2 a :to set right by adjusting to facts or principles
b :to acquaint with the existing situation or environment
3 :to direct (as a book or film) toward the interests of a particular group
4 :to cause the axes of the molecules of to assume the same direction"In other words, orientation is a PROCESS of getting your bearings, setting a course, getting every molecule of your being to align, facing a particular direction. This contradicts the claims that one is born this way and unable to change that. It denies the human ability to grow and adjust, and especially denies the power of the Savior and his Atonement. In addition, the origins of the word actually point to Christ:
orient (verb)- etymonline.com "c. 1727, originally "to arrange facing east," from French s'orienter, literally "to face the east" (also the source of German orientierung), from Old French orient "east," from Latin orientum (see Orient)
The east, as you may know from one of the earlier definitions above, or from the common LDS ("Latter Day Saint"/"Mormon
") practice of having the angel on our temples face that direction
, is emblematic of facing and welcoming Christ. Not only does the light of the world rise each morning in the east, but that is the direction Christ is to come from at his coming in glory as our king.
As phrased by Elder Lynn G. Robbins at a recent LDS Conference,
'Which way do you face?'Do you face towards the family as created by God and Nature? A mother, a father, bound together by covenants and promises, determined in their loyalty and support to each other and to their children. It is the basic unit of society, the intended privilege of every child, and when it fails, neighborhoods, cities, and nations are left trying to pick up the pieces; pieces that cannot be completely picked up and mended by human hands. Does the traditional family matter? Yes! It is at the core of God's plan for our happiness. He commanded our first parents, Adam and Eve, to multiply, to provide bodies for His spirit children, and then to teach those precious spirits in the Lord's way: the way of growth and safety.
What about our day? Paul warned that "the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine; but after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having itching ears;
And they shall turn away their ears from the truth, and shall be turned unto fables." - 2 Tim. 4:3-4
As a modern apostle, Dallin H. Oaks, once said, “followers of Christ [must] think differently than others."
(“As He Thinketh in His Heart,” 8 February 2013
). Jesus' response to the mocking Pharisees was, “Ye are they which justify yourselves before men; but God knoweth your hearts: for that which is highly esteemed among men is abomination in the sight of God”
).Humanism says there is no right, no wrong and no God. Instead, I assert that this life is Act 2 in a 3-act play
, and God gives inspired commandments to enable us to have real happiness now and the best possibilities in that next, much longer, Act 3. As we learn to think like God, we can develop the ability to see the genuine truth of all things, and will tap into the power to align our wills and actions to his Word, the Lord Jesus Christ.
Cleanliness is next to godliness.
It seems that most of us translate this statement as "cleanliness is a form of godliness".
Well, maybe. Maybe not.
1. Freedom from dirt, filth, or any foul, extraneous matter.
2. Neatness of person or dress; purity.
(1828 Noah Webster's Dictionary)
Cleanliness and order can be synonymous, and 'order' can be defined as 'priorities'. Proper priorities are definitely a form of godliness: sometimes 'proper priorities' means leaving a mess behind so I can focus on my children, or my neighbors, or my husband (not necessarily in that order). And usually proper priorities means cleaning the SLOW way by teaching my children to do it. It's easier, and cleaner much sooner, if I do it myself, but one of my God-given jobs is to train them.
In other words, I often have to choose between being godly and having cleanliness; and
We're in the transition between the celebration of Christmas and the reevaluation of a new year; here's some of what I've been thinking about.
We just don't know all the long-term effects of our actions... but he does; he who knows the end from the beginning. He tells us
, My name is Jehovah, and I know the end from the beginning; therefore my hand shall be over thee, and "I am God, and there is none like me,
from the beginning, and from ancient times the things that are not yet done" (Isaiah 46:9-10
I know that God has directed my paths, that I benefit most from this when I pay attention and listen for his counsel and direction. I'm grateful for the struggles and learning he's helped me through; they prepare me to become more like he is, and to better serve him and his children.
photo credit: Alex Grichenko
This December, would you like a daily thought, song, scripture, story, and/or activity to help you feel more of the calm
spirit of Christmas? My friend Amy over at LDS Holistic Living
has a Christmas Advent Calendar you can use or download for free. It's designed specifically with members of the LDS faith in mind, but anyone can find great things in it. If you're interested, you can get the calendar here.
Meanwhile, here's a sample:
The Real Story Behind the 12 Days of Christmas
Catholics in England were prohibited by law from practicing their faith, both in private and in public from 1558 to 1829. Being a Catholic was treated as a crime. There was no restored gospel at the time, however there were good Christians who knew without doubt the true church was not one that was mainly created merely for the convenience of King Henry the Eighth who wanted to sin and have a church justify his actions. So in secret they continued to teach their children their religion.
"The Twelve Days of Christmas" was written in England during this time frame. It was written to help children learn about their religion. The entire song is writing in symbolism and hidden meanings because it was illegal to have anything in writing that would indicate adherence to the Catholic faith. To be caught could mean imprisonment, hanging, or drawn and quartered.
Christmas referred to a twelve day period that starts with Christmas day. "The Twelve Days of Christmas" referred to a twelve day period that began Christmas day. While the world may have celebrated Christmas for about twelve hours, these Christians celebrated it for twelve days as a reminder that the gifts of God are with us for twelve months of the year. It also represented the idea that we should be thankful for the gifts of God and follow His teachings for all twelve months of the year and not just one day a year.
The song begins, "On the first day of Christmas my true love gave to me..." The "true love" represents God, as our greatest love should be for Him. The word worship means that which we love the most. The "me" who receives these presents is the Christian man or woman.1
. The "partridge in a pear tree" was Jesus Christ who died on a structure made from the wood of a tree. In ancient times a partridge was often used as mythological symbol of a divine, sacred king.2
. The "two turtle doves" were the Old and New Testaments - another gift from God. Doves symbolize peace and the Gospel contained in these scriptures, when practiced, brings peace.3.
The "three French hens" were faith, hope and love - the three gifts of the Spirit that abide (I
Corinthians 13). The French hens can also represent God the Father, His Son Jesus Christ and the Holy Ghost.4.
The "four calling birds" were the four Gospels which sing the song of salvation through Jesus Christ.5.
The "five golden rings" were the first five books of the Bible also called the "Books of Moses."6.
The "six geese a-laying" were the six days of creation.7
. The "seven swans a swimming" were "seven gifts of the Holy Spirit." (I Corinthians 12:8-11, Romans 12, Ephesians 4, 1 Peter 4:10-11)8.
The "eight maids a milking" were the eight beatitudes.9.
The "nine ladies dancing" were nine fruits of the Holy Spirit.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law." (Galatians 5:22)10.
The "ten lords a-leaping" were the Ten Commandments.11.
The "eleven pipers piping" were the eleven faithful disciples.12.
The "twelve drummers drumming" were the twelve points of the Apostles' Creed.
"The First Thanksgiving at Plymouth", 1914, Jennie A. Brownscombe, public domain
First, a bit of trivia:
Did you know? While pumpkins were certainly a part of the first feast of thanks-giving, they were usually roasted or stewed. And eaten very, very often!For pottage and puddings and custards and pies
Our pumpkins and parsnips are common supplies,
We have pumpkins at morning and pumpkins at noon,
If it were not for pumpkins we should be undoon."Pilgrim verse, circa 1633
Please take some time this week to gather your children, grandchildren, neighbors, or whomever you care about, and teach them of our nation's heritage of gratitude. Some great resources are below, including what George Washington said in his Proclamation for a Day of Thanksgiving. Each generation must learn this, or it dies out, leaving a gaping hole that entitlement and selfishness rush in to fill.Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all the others.
— Marcus Tullius Cicero (106 BC-43 BC), Pro Plancio (54 BC)
The following is from the Providence Foundation
's Nov. 2013 newsletter. (Thank you to them!)Celebrating Thanksgiving
Thanksgiving is an uniquely American holiday. We have been giving thanks to God in private and public from the foundation of the nation. In fact, governments regularly issued official days of Prayer and Thanksgiving from the planting of the first colonies up until the present. Over 1400 Days of Prayer, Thanksgiving, and Fasting were proclaimed by colonial, state, and national governments from 1620-1815, and hundreds more have been issued since then. A few items to help you remember and pass on our heritage of thanking God include:Why We Celebrate Thanksgiving
You can use this article to share with your family the origins of Thanksgiving Day.
Some Early Government Thanksgiving Proclamations
1. President George Washington, Proclamation for a Day of Thanksgiving, Thursday, November 26, 1789
2. Governor Thomas Jefferson of Virginia, Thanksgiving Proclamation, December 9, 1779
3. Proclamation for a Public Thanksgiving, New Hampshire, December 10, 1778
4. Proclamation for Thanksgiving Day, Continental Congress, December 18, 1777
Issued during the American Revolutionary War by the Continental Congress, this was the first national Thanksgiving Day in America. The explanation of the proclamation is from W. DeLoss Love, The Fast and Thanksgiving Days of New England (1895). Love lists over 1400 days of prayer and fasting and prayer and thanksgiving observed by civil governments (colonial, state, and national) from 1620-1815.
5. Proclamation for a Day of Thanksgiving and Prayer, Massachusetts, June 29, 1676
On June 20, 1676, the Council of Massachusetts appointed June 29 as a Day of Thanksgiving and Prayer, in response to the colonists’ victory in King Philip’s War. The broadside of this proclamation is the earliest printed thanksgiving broadside known. At the top is the seal of Massachusetts, which shows an Indian speaking the words, “Come Over and Help Us.”
I began homeschooling January 2013, starting with just one child, a fifth-grader.
I'll maybe write more about what started that, another time. This school year I have three children staying at home to learn, from Kindergarten through sixth grade.
We've started out our homeschool year by starting at what we know as the 'beginning'- the premortal existence, which gives context and purpose to everything from that point on:Where did we come from?Why are we here?Where are we going?The book of Genesis starts with "In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth". This coming week we'll cover what is known here as "in the beginning" which is different than what's above, the latter being the beginning of mortal life here. The book of Moses not only talks about what Genesis does, but also shows some of what was before, "worlds without number".
So far I've taught what we know of pre-mortality
, the Plan of Salvation
, the War in Heaven
, and the universe and galaxies (this coming week will be the solar system as part of this earth's Creation)- and I found some absolutely stunning things to teach with. You will be amazed! My 11-year-old cried as she watched and told me that the Holy Ghost was telling her this is true. Here are links:I Am A Son of God
(Moses' vision of the earth and everything in it)The Hubble Deep Field: The Most Important Image Ever TakenThe Scale of Everything
Scriptures I used with these:
(really, all of Moses chapter 1, and if it's scripture study, eventually the rest of Moses for the second part of his vision)Moses 1:32-33 (32-35)
Moses 1:37:39Moses 7:30
We also made glitter galaxies
Have any of you found or used the NASA educational website? As is typical of any information on the Internet, things need carefully reviewed before using them- but there are some pretty great things there. This week we'll do the "Jump to Jupiter" activity
, which will help carry on the idea of better understanding the scale of things (which you get in the videos and links above)
Upcoming 2014 Utah Legislation-Ending Compulsory Education
Utah state senator Aaron Osmond
has announced that in 2014 he’ll sponsor a bill proposing to end compulsory education
in Utah. The announcement got national attention, as Utah would be the first state to have this in a hundred years if it passes.
There is a bit of panic and a lot of misunderstanding about this.
“Compulsory education” is not the same as “public education”, and under his proposal, public education would remain solidly in place. What would
change is the parents’ ability
to determine what is best for their child, would give teachers more respect
by not forcing those who don’t want to be there on them, and would return the role of the state as a supporter of the family
—the basic unit of society-- rather than the current view of the family being the supporter of the state.
The principle involved here is whether or not we will allow parents to make decisions based on their own projected outcomes, or whether they’ll be compelled to do what bureaucrats think best for their children.
I believe the purpose of life is for each person to learn from their own choices and learning and the consequences that naturally follow. We are much less likely to learn –or value the chance to learn- when we’re forced into anything. Our current system’s promise is that every person will turn out to be ‘educated’, without regard to individual preference, agency, or voluntary dedication. They fail, as they must.
I have children in public school, in a charter school, and homeschool. Even though I’m ‘allowed’ to homeschool, the state requires me to get their permission to take care of my own children’s education, to promise to have them in ‘school’ for a certain number of hours and days, and to teach them the same topics the state Board of Education determined were most necessary. This is wrong for a few reasons.
- Do individuals and families exist to serve the state, or does the state exist to protect natural rights of individuals and families?
- My children, not having to compete for attention with 30 other students in a class, can get their work done in fewer hours.
- There are multiple reasons for education- and the UBOE’s objectives are not the same as mine.
- There’s never enough time to get everything done that anyone would like; I want to spend the limited time with my children teaching them things I think most important in helping them be hardworking, loving, responsible people who search for wisdom and reach out to others on their own initiative.
Before acting on your fears that Utah will suddenly be a hotbed of juvenile delinquents and welfare recipients if this law passes, please research the history of compulsory education and what the alternatives yield
. Some good places to start are (please at least watch the video! the same one as embedded above):
In addition, this will help relieve the huge financial burden that comes with our local student population predicted to double over the next 15-20 years.
According to http://boostup.org
we currently have a 24% dropout rate in Utah. I think that this will not change much when ending compulsory education. Others are worried that some parents are lazy and will not have their children attend- but I believe these parents are highly motivated to have the children at school where others take care of them and leave the parents with free time during the day.
What about those who worry that children not educated at a school (home-schooled) will end up on the welfare rolls?
Look at the track record of those who ARE in public education! Two years ago (2011) we had about 32 million households
who receive means-tested government assistance like school lunches, Medicaid, and food stamps, and 49% of American household have at least one member who receive some sort of government assistance. And the numbers continue to climb. We have a government that discourages personal initiative and effort, and protects us from the natural consequences of our actions, which would yield growth, understanding, and drive.
Here's something else that Oak (the guy from the vid above) has said:
"Why don't parents parent? Because once the state takes that authority from a parent, they are absolved of responsibility. If you want parents to parent again, give them back the authority and responsibility so they are empowered. If their child doesn't want to go to school, it's not the state's job to call the child a criminal and force him/her to school, it's then the parent's job to teach the child (perhaps with the help of concerned family and neighbors) the value of an education. If the child doesn't see the value, he/she won't learn. You can't teach someone who refuses to learn and you only hinder those who are there to learn. Removing compulsory education will help children become self-motivated just like we expect of them in college. It's not going to introduce child labor and sweat shops. It's going to open up new paths in education as educators innovate to provide a reason for those children to be in school."
“Many people want the government to protect the consumer. A much more urgent problem is to protect the consumer from the government
.” –Milton Friedman "Knowledge will forever govern ignorance; and a people who mean to be their own governors must arm themselves with the power which knowledge gives."
— James Madison
In the War in Heaven,
some were willing to trade their agency to choose, for promises of security. Christ’s plan is for agency, personal effort, and learning from natural consequences-- the path that leads to personal, meaningful growth; Satan’s plan is of control and coercion.
"We must be careful that we are not led to accept or support in any way any organization, cause or measure which, in its remotest effect, would jeopardize free agency, whether it be in politics, government, religion, employment, education, or any other field. It is not enough for us to be sincere in what we support. We must be right!” -Marion G. Romney Summary of my thoughts- I see this as an issue of whether the parents or the state is the ultimate authority over each child, and also as a perfect example of the continuation of the War in Heaven. In addition, scaling back the arm of government to its proper role here will have cost benefits.
A friend sent me instructions for making Easter Story
Cookies. I tweaked the ingredients, tweaked the instructions, and changed some of the scriptures to ones I thought my younger ones would relate to. (In other words, I don't know whose idea this originally
was, but should no longer be considered plagiarism.:) This is a sweet way to bring some of the real meaning of Easter into your home! For more Easter ideas, click on the "Easter" category on the right.
Mix these cookies the evening before Easter, they sit in the oven overnight, as an Easter morning surprise.
You will need:
- 1 tsp. vinegar
- 3 large egg whites
- Pinch of salt
- 3/4 cup sugar
- 1 cup pecan pieces
Waxed paper or parchment
Preheat the oven to 325 degrees. (This is important, so don’t wait until you’re half-way done with the recipe).
Smell the vinegar
. Put 1 tsp. into the mixing bowl. Explain that when Jesus was thirsty on the cross, He was given vinegar to drink. Read John 19:28-30
or Psalms 69:21
Add egg whites
to the vinegar.
Explain that eggs represent life. Jesus gave His life to give us life. Read John 10:9-11
Sprinkle a little salt
into each hand. Taste it and brush the rest into the bowl.
Explain that this represents the salty tears shed by Jesus’ followers, and bitterness of our sins. Show the wooden spoon, it represents the cross he carried and was nailed to.Read Luke 23:27
With a mixer, beat on high speed until soft peaks form.
Explain that the color white
represents the purity of those whose sins have been cleansed by Jesus. Read Isaiah 1:18 and John 3:1-3
So far the ingredients are not very appetizing. Add 3/4 cup sugar
, a tablespoon at a time, as you continue to whip. Keep mixing until they reach stiff peaks.
Explain that the sweetest part of the story is that Jesus died because He loves us. It wasn’t the nails that kept Him on the cross because nothing earthly could have. It was His love for us! Read Ps. 34:8 and John 3:16
Fold in the nuts
using the wooden spoon. Drop by teaspoons onto wax paper covered cookie sheet. Explain that each mound represents the rocky tomb where Jesus’ body was laid. Read Matthew 27:57-60
Put the cookie sheet in the oven and close the door and turn the oven OFF! Each person places a piece of masking tape
and seals the oven door. Read Matthew 27:62-66
Explain that they may feel sad to leave the cookies in the oven overnight. Jesus’ followers were in despair when the tomb was sealed. Read John 16:20, 22
On Easter morning, watch the 4-minute video “He is Risen
”, then open the oven and give everyone a cookie.
Notice the cracked surface and take a bite. The cookies are hollow!
Explain that on the first Easter, Jesus’ followers were amazed to find the tomb open and empty. Suggested scriptures to read: John chapter 20
(5 minutes), 1 Corinthians 15:22
(two lines), Mosiah 16:6-9
Happy Easter, Everyone! Christ Lives & Loves Us!
What beauties are around us! Below are some of the photos I've taken.
There's always "one that got away"; back when I was in college I looked outside and saw what looked like an upside-down, hanging rainbow. Turns out it was a circumzenithal arc
. Didn't have the camera.
Most of these pictures are from the last two years; the sun pillar photos are the most recent: from this New Year's Eve. We spotted them on our drive home from Grandma's house... What an amazing way to end the year! It felt like God's reassurance that he's aware and still in charge.
(For a music-backed experience, play Desert Symphony
while watching the pictures. Yeah, their videography upstages my pictures. Enjoy them both. )
Tonight I stood in the kitchen with my 10-year-old daughter; I kneaded bread rhythmically on the counter while she prepared pumpkin for the first time, scooping out seeds, cutting carefully into cubes to be steamed. We had music playing in the corner, Handel's masterpiece "Messiah" emanating from a pink Barbie CD player. Nevermind that my daughter was in charge of the pumpkin because she'd poked holes in it with a pencil (a smiley face, but now it wouldn't store through the winter) or that it was 11pm and both of us would have liked to been asleep. Some days the schedule just goes out the window. But as I showed her what to do - and not do!- then watched while she eagerly and carefully cut the pumpkin- I had the feeling I think every mother gets every now and again. The feeling that this is what life is about. Joy in learning. Joy in being with family. Joy in seeing abilities and confidence bloom in someone you love. Joy in working together, in passing skills on to the next generation, and in helping them see the results of honest effort. Joy in beautiful music and gratitude for those who created such uplifting works. Joy in my Savior, his life and example.
Joy to the world! -for all these joys are available to everyone to some degree.
If you'd like to hear the whole Messiah-
which is the best way to hear and understand its message-
here you go.
Notice the music above is over two hours long... it's the entire work. Handel wrote this in only 24 days- hundreds of pages of music for choir and instruments. It was written to help the listeners understand more about Jesus Christ, the Messiah. The lyrics are taken directly from the Old and New Testament, and go through His life, from before his birth, clear through his sufferings, Atonement, resurrection, and glory. A good, short video giving some of the background can be found here
, or see a fantastic blog post here
. I love to feel the power of the music and the message. At one point while this music was being composed, a friend came to visit and found Handel sobbing with emotion after writing the Hallelujah chorus. Handel is quoted as saying "I did think I did see all heaven before me and the great God himself." It is customary to stand while that chorus is sung... but did you know the chorus is referring to Christ's Second Coming? The scriptures this chorus comes from are Revelations 19:6, 16
, and 11:15
. It, like the "Christmas" song Joy To the World
(which Handel wrote the music for), are really a celebration of the future day when Christ rules as the righteous King of kings. (You can read more about the background of the custom of standing here
He signed the work "S.D.G
": Soli Deo gloria, or "glory to God alone".
Most people claim the best-known bit, the "Hallelujah Chorus", as their favorite, but the two below are my